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NIbana Life - Kapil,

Our Mission

We have been told that once we have a great job, business, great lifestyle, that car, that house, or that relationship; we will be happy and feel fulfilled. We would have made it in life once we get there
However, the experience when we get ‘there’ is very different. We realise that this is not it.
While we were so busy acquiring, achieving, and ticking all the boxes, we lost connection to that child-like play, electricity, and joy. It gets sucked out of our lives and we long for it.
Life feels good, but not great!
We often feel lost. There is a sense of boredom and dullness in our souls. Our relationships and intimate life look like it has lost its colours. There’s this ache at the back of our soul that just wouldn’t go away.
We often have this question on our mind - “is this it? Is there more to life than just this?”
At Nibana, we help you rediscover your bliss by moving from performance to a life that is rooted in presence.
Bliss is our birthright and we have forgotten that by living a life of pretense and prescription.
We teach you how to rediscover that bliss, and sustainably have that deep joy, fulfillment, pleasure, intimacy, connection, relationships, and purpose so that you can have your life back in technicolour!

Coaching Areas We Cover

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Kapil’s TEDx Talk - ‘Dare to be Sensitive’

In this thought-provoking talk, Kapil speaks of how most men are socially conditioned from a young age to hide their emotions and see their vulnerability and sensitivity as weakness; and the impact this has on their lives and personal relationships

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    How We Can Help You

    Issues you might be facing

    You are a professional or an entrepreneur who has been focussed on achieving and has the career/business side down, but you are tired of proving or there’s nothing left to prove.You have money, recognition, success, and have ticked all the boxes that you thought will bring you happiness and fulfillment, and yet it all feels empty.
    Issues you might be facing

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    You feel lost and don’t know how to go back to that feeling of joy that you once had access to.You feel stuck on the hamster wheel of more and more achievement and are scared that your life would fall apart if you stop.You struggle in your relationships and have lost hope of having a thriving relationship.You feel numb and miss the childlike play in your life.You have energy and also feel you are likely headed towards burnout.You often wake up with a feeling of dread.You have a good life on paper and you want to go from Good to Great!
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    Why Nibana

    20+ years of personal transformation experience we have taught 1000’s people in a workshop environment we have coached 100’s people one-on-one You will be working with Master coaches We coach from experience and not just theoretical knowledge
    Why Nibana

    Our Testimonial

    NJ

    Investor, London

    Highly recommend Kapil. He is an absolute soul whisperer and genius rolled into one

    Simone Vincenzi

    Entrepreneur, Speaker, C0-Founder of GTEX, London

    If you are looking for a speaker and trainer that can create a long-lasting transformation in your organisation, Kapil is your man. His presence and authenticity from the front of the room and his depth of knowledge of the field of human potential and wellbeing is second to none. Make sure you book Kapil for your next event or training day.

    Sandipan

    Professional at AWS, London

    Kapil has absolutely changed my way of looking at life and relationships. When I started working with Kapil I was in a bad shape and just after working for few weeks, I could start finding balance. I cannot thank Kapil enough for his support and guidance. I admire the way Kapil works and would recommend him strongly if you are looking for help.

    Christopher Thomas

    Global Membership Manager, Club Quarter Hotels, New York City

    I’ve had the honour of working with Kapil for the last few months and each and every session has always left me with an “aha” moment. His insightfulness, guidance and compassion has truly been a blessing. I never thought that I would need a “coach” when Kapil was recommended to me yet now I have a better understanding of my fears, more clarity around my desires, and certainty about the life that I want to live. For that, I’m truly grateful. I would highly recommend Kapil

    JB

    Finance Entrepreneur, London

    Kapil is a great speaker. Highly engaging, witty and eloquent. Most importantly Kapil really knows his stuff: he has a deep understanding of human beings and the challenges they face in modern life. I really gained more insight into my relationships with women. I would highly recommend Kapil as a coach

    James Kay

    Comedian, New York City

    Kapil always meets me where I’m at; no matter how worried I am that I won’t effectively communicate what I’m going through, he is able to feel where I’m at and what I need to move myself forward. At the same time I never feel judged, and often the parts I judge myself for are met with loving, encouraging approval. There’s always a sense of genuine curiosity in his coaching and constant invitations to go deeper into me and get to the heart of whatever is not serving me. When he does suggest something such as, for example, a crossed wire between love and value, he’s right on point. I feel seen and accepted by Kapil.

    Over our coaching, I’ve gained so much clarity and insight into myself, untangled my unhelpful thought patterns and have become so much more of who I really am in a way that has brought more joy and excitement into my life.

    Tanuj Kalia

    CEO, Lawctopus, India

    What does one do after the big goal is achieved? What does one do when money, fame, or even impact/contribution no longer cut it out for you? I turned to Kapil for coaching.

    Through a dozen sessions, I got to understand myself and the world out there more. His sessions gave me relief from the immediate, resolved what was in my head and heart, and more importantly, gave me tools and perspectives to go deeper and go beyond the immediate resolutions.

    The sessions have made me unfuckwithable, and have given me a mature worldview on relationships.

    I gained deep, lasting clarity on my business and the purpose it can serve for me and the world.

    Also, I might not have had the wonderful, magical relationship with my “current fiance and soon-to-be wife” had Kapil not entered my life!

    Ariane Cole

    Accountant & Business Coach, London

    If you are stuck in a rut, whether you’re single, in a relationship, lack confidence or direction, or just want more from life – Kapil is the answer!

    David Chambers

    Relationship Coach & Founder of Authentic Man podcast

    I reached out to Kapil as I was looking for some help with my career change.

    After one call, we got to the centre of my fear and my motivation behind leaving my job.

    But even more powerfully, Kapil helped me put into motion the bold action needed to make the leap.

    I left my job a few months later and haven’t looked back!

    Jason Rogers

    Olympic Medalist & Contributing Writer for MensHealth & New York Times

    As Kapil wrapped up the session, I was shocked to realize that the discomfort I’d expected never set in. It had been the closest thing I’d experienced to a real-life men’s group on Clubhouse.

    That had been the key difference between Gupta’s group and the rooms I’d visited before: how the experience felt. Gupta was raw and honest in a way I hadn’t encountered on Clubhouse; he conveyed his value as a coach simply by being himself

    Sunil Singh

    Entrepreneur, London

    Working with Kapil who has the ability to hold your energy and help you figure out how to direct it in purposeful ways, has helped me expand my ability to navigate life more creatively. It’s allowed me to be in acceptance of who I am as a person and provided me the tools to have a peace of mind. In a time where everything is a little wild, the tools I learned with Kapil have been fundamental to my growth as a person and to be able to enjoy life for the first time in many years. Would highly recommend his service if you are prepared to take back the management of your own mind body and soul.

    P P

    Business Owner, London

    I was going through separation and was struggling with self-worth and hadn’t had any sex in years. I was full of anxiety and fears about meeting women.

    I am amazed how my life changed since last year

    Sex is great. I forgot how good sex could be!

    Santiago Rue

    Management Consultant, Management Consultant

    Kapil is like a mirror, he acts as a tool for you to get to really see yourself. I think the process of working with Kapil is going to be a reflection of the person he is working with. If someone wants to understand something about themselves, Kapil can help to realise things that are so routed in themselves that they became totally unaware of.

    Katie Saxon

    Teacher, London

    In the time I’ve known and worked with Kapil, he’s shown a willingness to continue meeting life with a level of humility, honesty, and acceptance that is almost reverent. Kapil has this playful provoking nature, where he will gently prod me where he sees something in me, a behaviour or pattern that is asking to be brought into the light. Every time we have interacted this way I have felt unquestionable trust that he has my back.

    He has my best interest in mind and is vouching for my power, my feminine, and the fullest expression of myself. He is grounded, has a deep respect for the feminine, and has a capacity for holding others as they slowly come out. He’s been an important part of my journey.

    J

    London

    Kapil has a way of speaking to our desires that bypasses one’s vigilance center so that what we truly want can come out freely. He can see the rightness in the places where we often miss or deny it. There’s a gentle firmness in his teaching and a soft steadiness in his presence. I never felt his words being intrusive but they can always touch a place deep inside.

    Haris Abols

    Associate Credit Partner, Santander UK Corporate & Commercial, London

    As a coach, Kapil is exceptional. Attention to detail, really listen to what i say and help me discover what it is underneath my problem to highlight the answer i was looking for with grace, fun, straight to the point. Very powerful. If you talk to him, be clear of doing your side of the work and the results will be worthy.

    Caoilfhionn

    Digital Marketing Executive & Women’s Coach, London

    Kapil is a wonderful teacher. He’s got a playful, penetrative presence in the front of them room. His ability lies in the fact that he’s comfortable discussing the taboo, sex and the shadow, which gives permission to everyone else to explore these topics too. His fierce love for teaching a path of awakening and personal responsibility shines through everything he says. And he always keeps the tone engaging and fun, so that his teachings can be easily absorbed. I highly recommend attending his classes and workshops, as they’ve changed my life

    Pallavi

    Professional and Business Owner, London

    Confused, hurt, drowning in fear, victim, and super masculine, energetically is how I would describe myself at this time. He listened, comprehended, and provided the exact specific tools that were required for my situation. It felt like a magnifying mirror held close, showing me what I could do to be better, and instead I sat on fears and complained about the reasons why I couldn’t be and what all stopped me.

    Having worked over six months with Kapil, I can wholeheartedly say that I now have a lot of education, in various areas of life coaching, to be the best version of myself, especially be connected to my true feminine. He is always available for a chat and works a lot on himself to lead by example. Highly recommended!

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    FAQ's

    At Nibana, the way we differentiate between Coaching and Therapy is that coaching is usually always forward focussed or result driven. It’s about removing blockages in order to achieve something, become a new person, or resolve an issue. Coaching requires a certain level of psychological personal responsibility to change things in your life. Coaching may include understanding and resolving past issues if they are stopping you from moving forward, and in that sense there can be an overlap between Coaching and Therapy.

    Therapy is where clients work with a healthcare professional to diagnose and resolve past traumas and issues. We recommend that if you have any traumas that you want to work on or feel like you are not able to take control of your life in order to move forward, then Therapy may be a more appropriate option for you than coaching.

    At Nibana, we work with people who have experienced life, ticked some or all of the boxes that the world told us to to find that eternal joy, happiness and fulfilment – be it professional success, monetary achievement, acquisition of material wealth, relationships – and when we got to the top, we are left with a sense of – “there must be more to life than just this”

    We help you go from bad to good to better. We help you re-align your life to your blueprint so that you can find that joy, happiness, fulfilment again. A life that is rich, full of connection, intimacy, mystery and childlike playfulness.

    We offer this via a mix of Transformational Life Coaching, Self-Discovery, Emotional Intelligence and Executive Coaching, Relationship Coaching, Eros and Orgasmic Mediation training.

     

    At Nibana, we combine our training in the co-active coaching methodology, OM Life Coaching, and our life experience.

    We believe that on the path of self-discovery, realising our potential, and creating thriving relationships, we all need a guide who can point to our blind spots, someone who is an ally and support on our path who is rooting for us to be the best version of ourselves. This is our approach to Life Coaching.

    We create a bespoke path for each client we work with on a 1-on-1 basis that combines things from different part of the Nibana Framework.

     

    We have developed our own framework, which is based on our own life experiences and the journey we have had. The Nibana Framework consists of 4 key areas – Identity Work, Inner Skills, Practices, and Play.

    Our framework and methodology is inspired by various teachers we have worked with:

    Co-Active coaching methodology, OM Life Master Coach certification, Eros and Conscious Relationships teachings by Nicole Daedone, Victim Consciousness teachings by Lynne Forrest, Buddhist and mindfulness teachings by Jack Elias and Edward Espe Brown, Trauma Informed Coaching by Brad Kammer (of Peter Levine lineage), Flow research by Steven Kotler, various spiritual teachings as per Vedic traditions.

    At Nibana, we work with people who have experienced life, ticked some or all of the boxes that the world told us to to find that eternal joy, happiness and fulfilment – be it professional success, monetary achievement, acquisition of material wealth, relationships – and when we got to the top, we are left with a sense of – “there must be more to life than just this”.

    Our clients are successful professionals such as Senior Executives, Middle or senior managers, Entrepreneurs, Solopreneurs, and sometimes people who in between jobs and businesses. Typically, our clients from all genders who have tasted some success their lives and are either struggling & feel stuck, or want to go from good to better!

    We also work with clients who want to deepen their experience of connection and intimacy in dating & relationships.

    When working with a new client, we always start the process with a 20 min connection call. This call is primarily to get to know each other – for us to understand what you are looking for at a high level and whether we can help; and for you to assess if we are the right coaches for you.

    If there is desire on both sides to explore working together after the initial call, then we set up another exploratory call, which is a 60-90 min call to go deeper into what you want to achieve through coaching and what is blocking you. We also go through our coaching process and methodology on this call. You can also ask any questions you have about working together during this call.

    At the end of the second call, based on the conversion, we make an offer that i.e. number of sessions and price, which you can say Yes or No to.

    If you say Yes to the offer, we go through the required logistics and set up your first coaching session to start changing your life! 🙂

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