From Performance to Presence

Executive Transformation Coaching for Founders & Business Leaders

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Why Founders & Leaders Choose Nibana

You’ve built what others admire - yet clarity, energy, and connection slip through the cracks. My work helps elite performers feel as successful as they look: grounded presence, decisive focus, and a life that recharges you instead of draining you.

What you’ll get

Decision clarity you can trust - less noise, faster calls
Executive presence that settles rooms and moves people
Sustained energy through growth and uncertainty
Relationships that thrive, not tolerate your ambition
Stress resilience: nervous-system tools for real life
Purpose & direction beyond the next valuation or title
Consistent follow-through on what truly matters
A life that feels as good as it looks
Is This for You?

Is This for You?

  • You’re a founder or senior leader carrying outsized responsibility
  • Outward success; inwardly plateaued, restless, or close to burnout
  • You want depth over hacks and are willing to do the inner work
  • You value privacy and directness - no fluff, real outcomes
  • You’re ready to rebuild identity, not just add tactics
  • You prefer bespoke, high-touch support over group programs

Process

  1. Identity Reset - Recode the stories driving reactive patterns. Clarify values, upgrade beliefs, and align leadership to who you’re becoming.
  2. Embodied Presence - Nervous-system training and emotional range work so calm, power, and connection are felt - by you and everyone around you.
  3. Play-Based Integration - Real-world experiments that compound. Design weekly “plays” so change sticks in boardrooms, at home, and under pressure.

The Performance to Presence Method™

What we work with

  • Identity work - clarify who you are beneath roles and expectations. We do this by looking at things like Boundaries, Victim Consciousness, Core Beliefs, Shadow Work, Archetype & Inner Child work, and understanding Cultural Conditioning
  • Inner Skills - We generally learn skills that help us navigate the external world and be successful. However, we pay little attention or importance to our internal landscape. These skills can include cultivating attention, mindfulness, energy accounting, feminine-masculine dynamics, eros, principles of deep connection, embodiment, understanding desire cycle, orgasmic meditation (OM), reactivity vs responsiveness, and more…
  • Practices - At Nibana, we believe that in order to transform your life, sustainable change has to be rooted firmly in the discipline of practices or rituals.
  • Life as Play - Our coaching model introduces a set of principles for a life based on living life as an Infinite Game, i.e., creating a life where play and mystery are the core.

How change becomes durable

We pair insight with embodied practices—simple daily reps that re-train attention, emotion, and energy. Over weeks, these compound into a steadier nervous system, cleaner choices, and visible results at work and in relationships.

Our vibe

Straight, respectful conversations. No fluff. We go at the pace of truth—and we make room for play and mystery along the way.

What our clients say

What does one do after the big goal is achieved? What does one do when money, fame, or even impact/contribution no longer cut it out for you? I turned to Kapil for coaching.

Through a dozen sessions, I got to understand myself and the world out there more. His sessions gave me relief from the immediate, resolved what was in my head and heart, and more importantly, gave me tools and perspectives to go deeper and go beyond the immediate resolutions.

The sessions have made me unfuckwithable, and have given me a mature worldview on relationships.

I gained deep, lasting clarity on my business and the purpose it can serve for me and the world.

Also, I might not have had the wonderful, magical relationship with my “current fiance and soon-to-be wife” had Kapil not entered my life!

Tanuj Kalia
CEO, Lawctopus
India

I’ve had the honour of working with Kapil for the last few months and each and every session has always left me with an “aha” moment. His insightfulness, guidance and compassion has truly been a blessing.

I never thought that I would need a “coach” when Kapil was recommended to me yet now I have a better understanding of my fears, more clarity around my desires, and certainty about the life that I want to live. For that, I’m truly grateful. I would highly recommend Kapil

Christopher Thomas
Global Membership Manager, Club Quarter Hotels
New York City, USA

I reached out to Kapil as I was looking for some help with my career change. After one call, we got to the centre of my fear and my motivation behind leaving my job. But even more powerfully, Kapil helped me put into motion the bold action needed to make the leap. I left my job a few months later and haven’t looked back!

David Chambers
Men's Dating & Relationship Coach / Founder of The Authentic Man podcast
London, UK

Kapil gave me the tools and frameworks that helped me recognise my self-limiting beliefs and patterns. His advice and encouragement has been invaluable in my personal growth.

Bhavesh Dhaka
Consultant and Entrepreneur
Hong Kong

Common myths → What’s actually true

Myth “More success will finally make me feel fulfilled.”
Truth Fulfillment is an identity and nervous-system shift, not a finish line.
Myth “Presence is a soft skill—I need strategy, not this.”
Truth Presence is a performance multiplier—your strategy lands because of it.
Myth “Coaching is advice. I already know what to do.”
Truth The right coaching changes who’s making the decisions, not just the plan.
Myth “I don’t have time for this right now.”
Truth You can’t afford not to—this work gives time and energy back.

Frequently asked questions

How is this different from traditional executive coaching?
We combine identity, nervous-system training, and practice design so change is felt and visible in how you lead. It’s not advice; it’s a rebuild of how you show up.
Do you work with boards/co-founders as part of this?
Yes - by request. We can add stakeholder sessions to accelerate change across key relationships.
Is this confidential?
Absolutely. Discretion is foundational; all work is strictly confidential.
What kind of ROI do clients typically see?
Yes. We can include key stakeholders when useful and design joint sessions to accelerate alignment.
Is this suitable if I’m already in therapy?
Leaders report faster, cleaner decisions, improved team trust, measurable stress reduction, and stronger relationships. (We’ll define success metrics at kickoff.)