What does one do after the big goal is achieved? What does one do when money, fame, or even impact/contribution no longer cut it out for you? I turned to Kapil for coaching.
Through a dozen sessions, I got to understand myself and the world out there more. His sessions gave me relief from the immediate, resolved what was in my head and heart, and more importantly, gave me tools and perspectives to go deeper and go beyond the immediate resolutions.
The sessions have made me unfuckwithable, and have given me a mature worldview on relationships.
I gained deep, lasting clarity on my business and the purpose it can serve for me and the world.
Also, I might not have had the wonderful, magical relationship with my “current fiance and soon-to-be wife” had Kapil not entered my life!
Emotional Intelligence & Executive Coaching
Lead with presence under pressure - clear mind, clean communication, steady nervous system.
What is Emotional Intelligence Coaching at Nibana?
What you’ll get
Calmer baseline; fewer reactive spirals during high-stakes moments.
Clear, confident decisions and less overthinking.
Higher-quality conversations: feedback, boundaries and repair without drama.
Stronger team trust and cross-functional influence.
Lower stress and burnout risk; better energy management. 
Visible momentum within 4–6 weeks.

Is this for you?
- You’re an executive, founder or senior operator and want results without the constant drain. 
- You default to push/perform or avoid/overthink and want steadiness with spine.
- Hard conversations get delayed - or come out too hot.
- You want boundaries that protect focus without losing warmth or access.
- You value evidence-informed tools and weekly practice over vague “soft skills.”
- You’re willing to tell the truth, be coached and practise between sessions.
- Not for you if you want tips without implementation, or if you’re seeking clinical therapy for acute issues. I can signpost specialist support if needed.
The Process
- Connection call (20 min) — understand where you are and what you want.
- Deep-dive (60–90 min) — surface patterns, define outcomes, map first moves.
- Coaching container — bespoke cadence; practices to create durable change.
- Integration — track shifts; adjust as you evolve.
What our clients say
Common myths → What’s actually true
Myth
“Coaching is just advice or cheerleading.”
Truth
It’s a structured process that changes how you see and act.
Myth
“It takes ages to feel anything.”
Truth
You’ll notice early shifts; durable change compounds over weeks.
Myth
“Coaching is only for crises.”
Truth
It’s for anyone who wants a more alive, aligned next chapter.
Frequently asked questions
How is EI coaching different from generic leadership coaching?
EI coaching targets identity, nervous-system regulation and communication under pressure - so your leadership changes in real moments, not just on paper.
What frameworks and methods do you use?
We work with the four EI domains (self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship management) plus pragmatic tools: regulation drills, boundary scripts, feedback/repair frameworks and weekly micro-experiments. 
How will we measure progress so this isn’t just “soft skills”?
We define 1–3 key outcomes and track weekly behaviours, energy and outcomes via brief check-ins.
Will this help with feedback, conflict and stakeholder management?
Yes. As you cultivate Emotional Intelligence, you will learn to respond and not react in pressure situations. This is about building confidence in your felt sense over living a formula based life.
How quickly will I see results?
Many clients notice relief and clarity in 1–2 sessions; sustainable shifts typically compound over 6–12 sessions with practice between meetings.
How long are sessions and how often do we meet?
Standard sessions are 60 minutes, weekly or fortnightly. We’ll agree a cadence that fits your goals and season of life in the intro call.