Far too often, we either use our feelings and desires and skip responsibility to our word i.e. we don’t take into account our impact on people and the world around us if we don’t follow through on our commitments. This is our propensity towards the conditioned feminine.

OR

We cling to our word aka commitments in such a way that we ignore our feelings and emotions and then torture ourselves in the process i.e. we do not practice self-love. This is our propensity towards the conditioned masculine.

In a conversation with a coaching client, we talked about how easy it is to fall into comfort.

The people we connect with, the jobs we do, our bland relationships, how we live our lives, our relationship to money - once we start getting habituated to our environment we can find comfort literally anywhere.

My experience is that the answer lies in a very simple and yet very powerful question. And that question is:

“What do I want?”

OR

“What kind of experience I would like to have?”