Highly recommend Kapil. He is an absolute soul whisperer and genius rolled into one
Relationship Coach In London
There is no school for relationships. In our lives, we go through the education process and learn different skills, but when it comes to relationships; we usually learn by observing people around us through media and society at large.
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Our Testimonial
Simone Vincenzi
If you are looking for a speaker and trainer that can create a long-lasting transformation in your organisation, Kapil is your man. His presence and authenticity from the front of the room and his depth of knowledge of the field of human potential and wellbeing is second to none. Make sure you book Kapil for your next event or training day.
Sandipan
Kapil has absolutely changed my way of looking at life and relationships. When I started working with Kapil I was in a bad shape and just after working for few weeks, I could start finding balance. I cannot thank Kapil enough for his support and guidance. I admire the way Kapil works and would recommend him strongly if you are looking for help.
Christopher Thomas
I’ve had the honour of working with Kapil for the last few months and each and every session has always left me with an “aha” moment. His insightfulness, guidance and compassion has truly been a blessing. I never thought that I would need a “coach” when Kapil was recommended to me yet now I have a better understanding of my fears, more clarity around my desires, and certainty about the life that I want to live. For that, I’m truly grateful. I would highly recommend Kapil
JB
Kapil is a great speaker. Highly engaging, witty and eloquent. Most importantly Kapil really knows his stuff: he has a deep understanding of human beings and the challenges they face in modern life. I really gained more insight into my relationships with women. I would highly recommend Kapil as a coach
James Kay
Kapil always meets me where I’m at; no matter how worried I am that I won’t effectively communicate what I’m going through, he is able to feel where I’m at and what I need to move myself forward. At the same time I never feel judged, and often the parts I judge myself for are met with loving, encouraging approval. There’s always a sense of genuine curiosity in his coaching and constant invitations to go deeper into me and get to the heart of whatever is not serving me. When he does suggest something such as, for example, a crossed wire between love and value, he’s right on point. I feel seen and accepted by Kapil.
Over our coaching, I’ve gained so much clarity and insight into myself, untangled my unhelpful thought patterns and have become so much more of who I really am in a way that has brought more joy and excitement into my life.
Tanuj Kalia
What does one do after the big goal is achieved? What does one do when money, fame, or even impact/contribution no longer cut it out for you? I turned to Kapil for coaching.
Through a dozen sessions, I got to understand myself and the world out there more. His sessions gave me relief from the immediate, resolved what was in my head and heart, and more importantly, gave me tools and perspectives to go deeper and go beyond the immediate resolutions.
The sessions have made me unfuckwithable, and have given me a mature worldview on relationships.
I gained deep, lasting clarity on my business and the purpose it can serve for me and the world.
Also, I might not have had the wonderful, magical relationship with my “current fiance and soon-to-be wife” had Kapil not entered my life!
Ariane Cole
If you are stuck in a rut, whether you’re single, in a relationship, lack confidence or direction, or just want more from life – Kapil is the answer!
David Chambers
I reached out to Kapil as I was looking for some help with my career change.
After one call, we got to the centre of my fear and my motivation behind leaving my job.
But even more powerfully, Kapil helped me put into motion the bold action needed to make the leap.
I left my job a few months later and haven’t looked back!
Jason Rogers
As Kapil wrapped up the session, I was shocked to realize that the discomfort I’d expected never set in. It had been the closest thing I’d experienced to a real-life men’s group on Clubhouse.
That had been the key difference between Gupta’s group and the rooms I’d visited before: how the experience felt. Gupta was raw and honest in a way I hadn’t encountered on Clubhouse; he conveyed his value as a coach simply by being himself
Sunil Singh
Working with Kapil who has the ability to hold your energy and help you figure out how to direct it in purposeful ways, has helped me expand my ability to navigate life more creatively. It’s allowed me to be in acceptance of who I am as a person and provided me the tools to have a peace of mind. In a time where everything is a little wild, the tools I learned with Kapil have been fundamental to my growth as a person and to be able to enjoy life for the first time in many years. Would highly recommend his service if you are prepared to take back the management of your own mind body and soul.
P P
I was going through separation and was struggling with self-worth and hadn’t had any sex in years. I was full of anxiety and fears about meeting women.
I am amazed how my life changed since last year
Sex is great. I forgot how good sex could be!
Santiago Rue
Kapil is like a mirror, he acts as a tool for you to get to really see yourself. I think the process of working with Kapil is going to be a reflection of the person he is working with. If someone wants to understand something about themselves, Kapil can help to realise things that are so routed in themselves that they became totally unaware of.
Katie Saxon
In the time I’ve known and worked with Kapil, he’s shown a willingness to continue meeting life with a level of humility, honesty, and acceptance that is almost reverent. Kapil has this playful provoking nature, where he will gently prod me where he sees something in me, a behaviour or pattern that is asking to be brought into the light. Every time we have interacted this way I have felt unquestionable trust that he has my back.
He has my best interest in mind and is vouching for my power, my feminine, and the fullest expression of myself. He is grounded, has a deep respect for the feminine, and has a capacity for holding others as they slowly come out. He’s been an important part of my journey.
J
Kapil has a way of speaking to our desires that bypasses one’s vigilance center so that what we truly want can come out freely. He can see the rightness in the places where we often miss or deny it. There’s a gentle firmness in his teaching and a soft steadiness in his presence. I never felt his words being intrusive but they can always touch a place deep inside.
Haris Abols
As a coach, Kapil is exceptional. Attention to detail, really listen to what i say and help me discover what it is underneath my problem to highlight the answer i was looking for with grace, fun, straight to the point. Very powerful. If you talk to him, be clear of doing your side of the work and the results will be worthy.
Caoilfhionn
Kapil is a wonderful teacher. He’s got a playful, penetrative presence in the front of them room. His ability lies in the fact that he’s comfortable discussing the taboo, sex and the shadow, which gives permission to everyone else to explore these topics too. His fierce love for teaching a path of awakening and personal responsibility shines through everything he says. And he always keeps the tone engaging and fun, so that his teachings can be easily absorbed. I highly recommend attending his classes and workshops, as they’ve changed my life
Pallavi
Confused, hurt, drowning in fear, victim, and super masculine, energetically is how I would describe myself at this time. He listened, comprehended, and provided the exact specific tools that were required for my situation. It felt like a magnifying mirror held close, showing me what I could do to be better, and instead I sat on fears and complained about the reasons why I couldn’t be and what all stopped me.
Having worked over six months with Kapil, I can wholeheartedly say that I now have a lot of education, in various areas of life coaching, to be the best version of myself, especially be connected to my true feminine. He is always available for a chat and works a lot on himself to lead by example. Highly recommended!
Most often we find ourselves thrown at the deep end trying to learn how to swim
Traditionally speaking, the idea of relationship means:
Our partner completes us
They are the better half
Relationships are about compromises
Suppressing parts of ourselves because it upsets our partners
The idea of a prince charming who will sweep us off our feet (swap with any other Disney fantasy) and then once we find out partner, the rest of the life is going to be a piece of cake, picture walking into the sunset holding hands…forever happy!
“Well, how’s that working out for you?” – as one of my teachers would say!
Relationship Coaching at Nibana
We teach a different paradigm of relating where:
We bring our whole self to the relationship
Relationship is a conscious partnership and it takes continuous work
It is about being the best version of ourselves and supporting our partner in becoming the best version
We shine our lights out into the world
We do our own work and take responsibility for our triggers and boundaries.
Truth and authentic communication is the foundation
Here are some topics you could expect to cover:
Designing your ideal relationship
Desire in relationship – building deep connection and intimacy
Thriving in conflict
Cultural Conditioning. Shadow. Shame
Communication. Truth. Honesty. The 2nd Conversation
Creating the “Third” by taking responsibility for our own work
Understanding and building boundaries
Understanding Victim Consciousness
Masculine and Feminine dynamics and societal conditioning
Coaching can include training and guidance on the practice of Orgasmic Meditation (OM)
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FAQ's
While traditional therapy may investigate deeper underlying psychological issues, stress management coaching primarily focuses on creating practical skills and methods to cope with stress in daily life.
You need stress management coaching if you experience physical symptoms like muscle tension, sleep troubles, or headaches, coupled with emotional signs like persistent anxiety, lack of focus, or behaviour changes like increased substance use or emotional outbursts.
If you have emotional indicators like chronic anxiety, difficulty focusing, headaches, or muscle tightness, along with physical symptoms like increased substance usage or emotional outbursts, you may benefit from stress management coaching.
Stress that is not well managed can have a detrimental effect on relationships, decision-making, personal development, and job advancement. In the end, it may result in depressing and life-unsatisfying emotions.
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