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Performance to Presence Coaching

In this video Kapil describes the four key areas in the Nibana Framework - Identity, Inner Skills, Practices, Play

Is there more to life than just this?

In working with successful professionals, we’ve often found that their barrier to happiness is unfulfillment. When they thought they’d got to the top and discovered it’s not the end all and be all. They often wonder, “Is there more to life than just this?”

In talking to professionals on a daily basis, one thing we often hear is, ‘I am doing well and I am comfortable in my profession, but life feels bland and I am struggling in my relationships’. We have been there ourselves and we know that it doesn’t have to be this way.

We’ve created this program so that you can learn to replace that boredom, loneliness, and stress with the feeling of calm, deep joy, fulfillment, and richness of deep connection.

The program is designed so that you can start to choose every aspect of life - work, personal, purpose, connection, intimacy, and relationships - exactly the way you want, and in technicolour.

We will follow these core steps to achieve this:

Excavating your hidden belief system
Discover who you really are as a person and integrate your shadow
Steps you need to get back into the driving seat in all areas of your life and not just work
Understand the importance of emotional integration
How to implement this in your life without us!

What is the cost of not living the life that you really want?

Every time we ask this question to ourselves, we can see a Bill of Materials in front of our eyes. It has on it a list of regrets.

There is also a second Bill of Materials. On this one was a list of things we would have to give up to have the life we want. Most of the time, what that also means is that we will have to get out of our comfort zone, to risk losing that emotional, physical and psychological cushion that we have gotten used to sitting on.

We always have the option, however, We only really change by Inspiration or Desperation.

Testimonials - Blog

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Kapil is like a mirror, he acts as a tool for you to get to really see yourself. I think the process of working with Kapil is going to be a reflection of the person he is working with.

If someone wants to understand something about themselves, Kapil can help to realise things that are so routed in themselves that they became totally unaware of.

/ Santiago Rue, Columbia, Management Consultant /

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In the time I’ve known and worked with Kapil, he’s shown a willingness to continue meeting life with a level of humility, honesty, and acceptance that is almost reverent. Kapil has this playful provoking nature, where he will gently prod me where he sees something in me, a behaviour or pattern that is asking to be brought into the light. Every time we have interacted this way I have felt unquestionable trust that he has my back.

He has my best interest in mind and is vouching for my power, my feminine, and the fullest expression of myself. He is grounded, has a deep respect for the feminine, and has a capacity for holding others as they slowly come out. He’s been an important part of my journey.

/ Katie Saxon, London, Teacher /

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Kapil has a way of speaking to our desires that bypasses one’s vigilance center so that what we truly want can come out freely. He can see the rightness in the places where we often miss or deny it. *There’s a gentle firmness in his teaching and a soft steadiness in his presence**. I never felt his words being intrusive but they can always touch a place deep inside.*

/ J, London /

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*As a coach, Kapil is exceptional**. Attention to detail, really listen to what i say and help me discover what it is underneath my problem to highlight the answer i was looking for with grace, fun, straight to the point.* *Very powerful**. If you talk to him, be clear of doing your side of the work and the results will be worthy.*

/ Haris Abols, London, Associate Credit Partner, Santander UK Corporate & Commercial /

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Kapil is a wonderful teacher. He's got a playful, penetrative presence in the front of them room. His ability lies in the fact that he's comfortable discussing the taboo, sex and the shadow, which gives permission to everyone else to explore these topics too. His fierce love for teaching a path of awakening and personal responsibility shines through everything he says. And he always keeps the tone engaging and fun, so that his teachings can be easily absorbed. I highly recommend attending his classes and workshops, as they've changed my life

/ Caoilfhionn, London, Digital Marketing Executive & Women’s Coach /

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Confused, hurt, drowning in fear, victim, and super masculine, energetically is how I would describe myself at this time. *He listened, comprehended, and provided the exact specific tools that were required for my situation**. It felt like a magnifying mirror held close, showing me what I could do to be better, and instead I sat on fears and complained about the reasons why I couldn't be and what all stopped me.*

Having worked over six months with Kapil, I can wholeheartedly say that I now have a lot of education, in various areas of life coaching, to be the best version of myself, especially be connected to my true feminine. He is always available for a chat and works a lot on himself to lead by example. Highly recommended!

/Pallavi, London, Professional and Business Owner /

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I was going through separation and was struggling with self-worth and hadn’t had any sex in years. I was full of anxiety and fears about meeting women.

I am amazed how my life changed since last year

Sex is great. I forgot how good sex could be!

/ P P, London, Business Owner /

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Working with Kapil who has the ability to hold your energy and help you figure out how to direct it in purposeful ways, has helped me expand my ability to navigate life more creatively. It’s allowed me to be in acceptance of who I am as a person and provided me the tools to have a peace of mind. In a time where everything is a little wild, the tools I learned with Kapil have been fundamental to my growth as a person and to be able to enjoy life for the first time in many years. Would highly recommend his service if you are prepared to take back the management of your own mind body and soul.

/ Sunil Singh, London, Entrepreneur /

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As Kapil wrapped up the session, I was shocked to realize that the discomfort I’d expected never set in. It had been the closest thing I’d experienced to a real-life men’s group on Clubhouse.

That had been the key difference between Gupta’s group and the rooms I’d visited before: how the experience felt. Gupta was raw and honest in a way I hadn’t encountered on Clubhouse; he conveyed his value as a coach simply by being himself

/ Jason Rogers, Olympic Medalist & Contributing Writer for MensHealth & New York Times /

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I reached out to Kapil as I was looking for some help with my career change.

After one call, we got to the centre of my fear and my motivation behind leaving my job.

But even more powerfully, Kapil helped me put into motion the bold action needed to make the leap.

I left my job a few months later and haven't looked back!

/ David Chambers, Relationship Coach & Founder of Authentic Man podcast /

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If you are stuck in a rut, whether you're single, in a relationship, lack confidence or direction, or just want more from life - Kapil is the answer!

/ Ariane Cole, Accountant & Business Coach, London /

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What does one do after the big goal is achieved? What does one do when money, fame, or even impact/contribution no longer cut it out for you? I turned to Kapil for coaching.

Through a dozen sessions, I got to understand myself and the world out there more. His sessions gave me relief from the immediate, resolved what was in my head and heart, and more importantly, gave me tools and perspectives to go deeper and go beyond the immediate resolutions.

*The sessions have made me unfuckwithable**, and have given me a mature worldview on relationships.*

I gained deep, lasting clarity on my business and the purpose it can serve for me and the world.

Also, I might not have had the wonderful, magical relationship with my "current fiance and soon-to-be wife" had Kapil not entered my life!

/ Tanuj Kalia, CEO, Lawctopus, India /

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I have been coached by Kapil on building awareness on communication and my role as a man, especially in relationships with women. Through consistent use of inventories, Kapil helped me understand that fears and insecurities are created unconsciously and that was a real eye opener for me. Being aware of this simple fact, that had to be experienced, I could ease my situation by not allowing fears to take over

/ Lars Oyvind Odegard, Project Director, Norway /

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Kapil always meets me where I’m at; no matter how worried I am that I won’t effectively communicate what I’m going through, he is able to feel where I’m at and what I need to move myself forward. At the same time I never feel judged, and often the parts I judge myself for are met with loving, encouraging approval. There’s always a sense of genuine curiosity in his coaching and constant invitations to go deeper into me and get to the heart of whatever is not serving me. When he does suggest something such as, for example, a crossed wire between love and value, he’s right on point. I feel seen and accepted by Kapil.

Over our coaching, I’ve gained so much clarity and insight into myself, untangled my unhelpful thought patterns and have become so much more of who I really am in a way that has brought more joy and excitement into my life.

/ James Kay, Comedian, New York City /

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Kapil is a great speaker. Highly engaging, witty and eloquent. Most importantly Kapil really knows his stuff: he has a deep understanding of human beings and the challenges they face in modern life. I really gained more insight into my relationships with women. I would highly recommend Kapil as a coach

/ JB, Finance Entrepreneur, London /

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I’ve had the honour of working with Kapil for the last few months and each and every session has always left me with an “aha” moment. His insightfulness, guidance and compassion has truly been a blessing. I never thought that I would need a “coach” when Kapil was recommended to me yet now I have a better understanding of my fears, more clarity around my desires, and certainty about the life that I want to live. For that, I’m truly grateful. I would highly recommend Kapil

/ Christopher Thomas, Global Membership Manager, Club Quarter Hotels, New York City /

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Kapil has absolutely changed my way of looking at life and relationships. When I started working with Kapil I was in a bad shape and just after working for few weeks, I could start finding balance. I cannot thank Kapil enough for his support and guidance. I admire the way Kapil works and would recommend him strongly if you are looking for help.

/ Sandipan, Professional at AWS, London /

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If you are looking for a speaker and trainer that can create a long-lasting transformation in your organisation, Kapil is your man. His presence and authenticity from the front of the room and his depth of knowledge of the field of human potential and wellbeing is second to none. Make sure you book Kapil for your next event or training day.

/ Simone Vincenzi - Entrepreneur, Speaker, C0-Founder of GTEX, London /

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Highly recommend Kapil. He is an absolute soul whisperer and genius rolled into one

/ NJ, Investor, London /

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